When politics enters friendship, friendship ceases to be a relationship, and degenerates into a power struggle that no one wins, not even the friendship.
When you show aggression to others, make sure you are the most aggressive person there is. Otherwise, there will always be better than you are even in aggression. And there will come a time when you will be on the receiving end of something that will overwhelm you.
There is a point when anger ceases to be an act of love if ever it has started as one. Good feelings nourish love. Negative emotions like anger strangle it.
Only when the people truly seek for your services in official and public offices, and without you giving them money to pay for that support, that spending your time and energy to serve them become worthwhile. Their money contributed to support your candidacy is the strongest sign of their support for your response to their call for your services.
Those who love you unconditionally build up your store of graces and genuine love. Those who use you to their selfish ends siphon your energy to love unconditionally. The former are your true family; the latter are the people to reach out for your ministry.